I Heart Online Dating

But do I love myself?

Sometimes, I wonder if living in LA is keeping me from realizing the truth about myself as a person. (more…)

Sometimes, you just can’t settle for someone keeping you down. Even when it’s easier. (more…)

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Let’s just say that I have a lot of fun in Spring.

The weather excites me and I can tell in my online dating: there are lots of new people online, and new faces means something else. (more…)

Remember that the sun shines too? Well, I do now.

I just had an amazing romp in the OC. Yeah, I said it: the OC. And you know what? (more…)

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I wrote last time about how it never rains in Southern California.

I was write in saying that it pours when it does rain. But the sun comes out quickly again.

That’s the thing about online dating- the stress of life online is tough- the easy connections, hookups, and fun can fade so quickly. But the good thing is that you can pick yourself  up and see the sun again. A good deal, right?

Yeah.

It is.

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But when it rains, it pours.

My lifestyle- swinging- is supposed to be about prevent those tricky emotions. The hurt and pain. The heartache.

It doesn’t always work. (more…)

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Lately, I’ve been trying something new when I’m pursuing a new date.

Video chat.

But I’m still not sure if I like it. (more…)

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So, as you know, I’m back on the prowl again. And as I do every time when I go back on the scene, I do one important thing: I update my profile pic. (more…)

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So I went on a second date with the picnic guy. I was nervous that he wouldn’t want me again. Would he continue to keep me waiting? (more…)

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So as you might have guessed from my last post about a picnic meeting, I had a picnic date the other day. The weird thing? It was an actual date…. (more…)

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Sure, I’m on AdultFriendFinder and, so, don’t really wait a long time before taking things to the next level. Still, it’s always safe practice to meet a person first. My favorite first date?… (more…)

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Every February in LA, people have a smile on their faces. I think it’s because we realize more than ever how lucky we really are to be in this place. It not only makes us happier. It makes us friskier, too. (more…)

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Believe it or not, I don’t spend all my time in the suburbs. But I do spend a lot of time there. And sometimes I wonder what I would be like if I ended up living outside of LA. I can’t help but think it would be bad… (more…)

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My suburban love affair is going…scandalously. That means that things are good. But I’ve encountered one little problem during my love romps in the OC. Every time I leave my new lover’s house, I seem to run into the neighbor. She’s 80.

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So it seems my suburban love affair is destined to continue. Do you know the weirdest thing I’ve discovered?

It’s the grocery store… (more…)

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