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How Do You Introduce Yourself- As A Swinger?

My suburban love affair is going…scandalously. That means that things are good. But I’ve encountered one little problem during my love romps in the OC. Every time I leave my new lover’s house, I seem to run into the neighbor. She’s 80.

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At The Grocery Store

So it seems my suburban love affair is destined to continue. Do you know the weirdest thing I’ve discovered?

It’s the grocery store… (more…)

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Lovin’ In the Suburbs

Hello darlings. Last time I posted, I mentioned that I’m having a love affair with the suburbs- or, more specifically, a man in the suburbs.

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Summer At Home

Unfortunately, my last vacation was my only one this summer- I’ve been stuck in the LA area for a while. It’s not so bad though- LA is big enough a city that you can always get lost. (more…)

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The Vacation Report

The last time I wrote, I was leaving for my vacation- well, I’ve come back. And I have a lot to report!

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Moving On To New Opportunities

Next week I finally get to leave LA and go on vacation (including a vacation from Alan and Margo. What does that mean? You guessed it. Back on AdultFriendFinder.

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Finally, A Little Closure. As Well As A Beginning

I was starting to get tired of waiting! But I finally convinced Margo AND Alan to spend the night with me, together. I could have a diplomatic career after this (and you know I’d love the free parking). They came over to my house around 8PM at night and I was ready. I’d made dessert for all of us and saved some of the chocolate for later, if you know what I mean.

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Finally, I’m Going To Be Doing Something Other Than Blogging!

I finally convinced him! I’m not used to my seductions being so…verbal. But now that Alan believes he’s a good lover, I was able to tell Margo my address. That was an interesting phone call…

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Convincing Alan to See Me- With His Wife

I was finally getting through to Alan. But that didn’t mean I’d convinced him to be with me…yet. I had some work to do.

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Finding Out Why Alan Is Insecure

I was trying to boost Alan’s self esteem about his…prowess. He thought he didn’t compare to his wife, Margo, but I knew he was wrong. Believe me- I knew. But it was hard to get him to believe me.

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Boosting Alan’s Self Esteem- And My Chances

I was finally on the phone with Alan and had a bit of a surprise- he wasn’t jealous. He was insecure. I don’t know whyI wasn’t able to see it before. The whole time he’d been worried he wasn’t good enough. I had to convince him otherwise.

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Alan Defends Himself

Yesterday, I finally called Alan. I started asking him why he wanted to see me separately from his wife Margo, even when she was ok with a three person pleasure pact. He tried to stall at first, but I eventually got an answer.

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Calling Alan

I finally told Sam how I really felt- but now I had to do something harder. I had to tell Alan and Margo. I decided to call Alan first. It would be easier.

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Writing Sam Before Alan and Margo

For AdultFriendFinder, I’ve been doing far too much thinking! The past few days I’ve dealt with privacy issues with Sam and concerns over Alan and Margo’s lifestyle. But I’ve made some decisions. I decided to write Sam first… (more…)

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Did I Treat Sam Wrong?

My conversation with Sam has made me wonder- did I treat him wrong? Could I have been a better person? Or a kinder one? And had I crossed the line in wanting to blog about him?

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